Sense and style in UP

If there is anything that has been proven in the ongoing debate on the issue of the Philippine Collegian editorship, it is that it is impossible to measure sense and style in numerical terms.  We can have notions of good, better or best, but the difference in beauty and sensibility between an essay that is … Read more

Unstoppable women

They once formed a graceful trio that walked the length of the UP Diliman campus every day even before the sun was up.  Their lively chatter covered a rich agenda: family and friends, national politics and social science, academic gossip and paths to spirituality.  For more than 20 years, they were my family’s closest neighbors … Read more

Kidnapped

Someone very dear to one of my children was kidnapped last week. He was on his way to visit her, but decided to stop by the busy Citimall on Commonwealth Avenue to buy something.  Not finding what he was looking for, he did not stay more than 10 minutes.  In full view of early evening … Read more

Conversations for sale

The business of selling conversations on the telephone started in highly urbanized societies where human beings must live together as fragments of  a “lonely crowd”.  The sociologist Johan Galtung quantifies the extent of this mass loneliness thus:  40% of all households in Sweden are one-person households, and 20% of all Americans say they do not … Read more

Spirituality and the OCW

My friend Dodong Nemenzo, who lives near 2 churches in UP but never visits any of them,  tells me that in Japan where he is currently a visiting professor, he goes to church when he wants to eat  balut or dinuguan.   I am sure however that it is more than the meal that follows the … Read more

Maid in Hong Kong

I will not mention her name here.  It was bad enough that I had to ask her what she was doing in Hong Kong.  But then, how could I presume what job a B.Sc. in Agriculture graduate from UP is prepared to take on these days? UP students have this illusion that they belong to … Read more

The liturgy of public executions

This title, and such other morbidly graphic phrases as  the “spectacle of the scaffold”, “gallows speeches”, or the functions of “punitive rituals”,  are taken from  Michel Foucault’s book Discipline & Punish. To Justice Secretary Teofisto Guingona and Senator Ramon Magsaysay Jr., who have both recommended TV coverage of public executions, I enthusiastically endorse this  fascinating … Read more

Mothers

Long after they have delivered them into the world, mothers continue, for some mysterious reason,  to feel deeply responsible for their children, for what they have become or will become.  It is a burden that is not as often associated with or as intensely experienced by fathers. Children are more properly seen as their mothers’ … Read more

Graduations

I’ve always been a reluctant speaker at graduations.  I’ve always suspected that graduates everywhere would rather get on with the ceremonies than listen to stale sermons.  Besides,  what can one really say on such occasions that will not sound trite? But it was very difficult to refuse the invitation of UP Cebu Dean Socorro Villalobos, … Read more

Our children all

Paulo po, he said – Paulo Parungao was his name.  I was doing some last minute shopping at Baguio’s vegetable market in-between a late lunch at Rosebowl and the 3 p.m. Victory Liner bound for Cubao.  A platoon of kids of varying sizes and ages blocked my path, selling plastic bags and offering to carry … Read more