Long after they have delivered them into the world, mothers continue, for some mysterious reason, to feel deeply responsible for their children, for what they have become or will become. It is a burden that is not as often associated with or as intensely experienced by fathers. Children are more properly seen as their mothers’ … Read more
I’ve always been a reluctant speaker at graduations. I’ve always suspected that graduates everywhere would rather get on with the ceremonies than listen to stale sermons. Besides, what can one really say on such occasions that will not sound trite? But it was very difficult to refuse the invitation of UP Cebu Dean Socorro Villalobos, … Read more
Paulo po, he said – Paulo Parungao was his name. I was doing some last minute shopping at Baguio’s vegetable market in-between a late lunch at Rosebowl and the 3 p.m. Victory Liner bound for Cubao. A platoon of kids of varying sizes and ages blocked my path, selling plastic bags and offering to carry … Read more
In general, our motorists are law-abiding citizens. The few deviant elements who delight in deliberately flouting the law are exceptional. The many who seem to violate every conceivable norm of decent driving do so, I think, not maliciously but ignorantly. They are just unfamiliar with the culture of driving. If this thesis is correct, our … Read more
Rape must rank as a woman’s darkest nightmare for it represents the most total of all possible invasions of her body. The crudest assertions of power have always had the physical body as their object. That is why the first spoils claimed by victors in war are the local women. That is also why in … Read more
While lecturing at the National Autonomous University of Mexico early this year, I had the rare chance of witnessing the signing of the first peace accord between the Mexican government and the Zapatista Army of National Liberation or EZLN. That historic event reminded me of the Moros’ own negotiations with the government. I began to … Read more
Graft or corruption is a modern crime. It presupposes the existence of a modern bureaucratic State and a culture of law. Strictly speaking, there was no graft in traditional societies ruled by custom. It was not illegal for a ruler to help himself to the community’s wealth and not provide for the needs of his … Read more
In the wake of the Ozone disco tragedy, the press has called for more militant regulation of establishments that cater to the public. The main problem of our society, however, is not the absence of good laws, nor the inability to implement these. Our main problem is the general absence of civility as a value … Read more
At about this time of the year, one hundred years ago, an 8-page newspaper, subversive in every way, came out with its maiden issue. Its name was Kalayaan, the newspaper of the Katipunan. Its date of publication was January 18, 1896 even if it was circulated only in mid-March. It had taken 2 months to … Read more
In our society, when a man has a problem he cannot handle, he seeks the company of friends and drinks with them. Thus sheltered by kindly souls and protected by alcohol, he steps out of himself and cries out his distress. Sometimes he retreats into solitude, but unable to handle the graver environment of silence, … Read more